Sometimes it's just not nice to share what you have. My sweetheart is a wonderful man and he feels so bad that he shared a horrible case of the flu with me. He feels even worse that it hit me harder than him! When my mother and her sister were young they made up a name for stuff like this. I have 'the grobis-macrobis!' I'll be back when I can hold my head up for more than a few minutes without the world spinning around me.